It’s All About Your Heart Not Your Scars

A beautiful soul was telling me about how true leaders are those who use their heart, their head and their gut. The most important one is the heart. She shared with me how she has spent so many years in the business industry, an industry dominated by men, and there is a sense of restriction … Continue reading It’s All About Your Heart Not Your Scars

How To Fall In Love With Yourself

Happy New Year to my dear fellow bloggers. Wishing you all a beautiful year ahead filled with wonderful memories, and thank you from the bottom of my heart for supporting me and following my online journey.  I was looking back at the first post I wrote in 2017, and it was a post about love. … Continue reading How To Fall In Love With Yourself

The Ability To Judge Less And Love More

It's interesting to think that no one really knows what we're like. Only a very few that are close to us will see us through our ups and downs, but no one can live the journey of another. I had a conversation with a friend recently about how people will view you the way they … Continue reading The Ability To Judge Less And Love More

The Importance Of A Date To Marry Mindset

I don't know about you, but when I was a teenager, I never set my mind on wanting to date. Sure, I'd have a crush on someone, or have those thoughts on the day I would be married and have a family, but I just never felt that desire to date. When it did happen, … Continue reading The Importance Of A Date To Marry Mindset

The Beautiful Feeling Of Your First Love

The feeling of heartache can feel like crashing waves drowning you under the heavy weight, sinking into the bottom of the ocean. You feel empty, angry, upset and confused for a period of time. However, after the ocean of tears, lying in bed staring at the invisible stars and feeling a grey cloud is raining … Continue reading The Beautiful Feeling Of Your First Love

To Do List & Words Of Love When You Feel Blue

There are periods of time where I feel sad or down, and I'm sure many people may feel that way, especially if you have been through depression or have anxiety. The unkind thoughts come slowly creeping in, and before you know it you feel a grey cloud above your head. I find that a few … Continue reading To Do List & Words Of Love When You Feel Blue

What We Talk About When We Talk About Love

I believe the title is originally a book from 1981 by American writer Raymond Carver. There are different types of love. Affectionate love, friendship love, romantic love and spiritual love. Affectionate love expresses the fondness and natural love a parent has for their child. The love we may feel towards our family. Friendship love is … Continue reading What We Talk About When We Talk About Love

My Love Hate Relationship With Auckland

Since I will very likely move back to Auckland in the next year or so, I wanted to write about this topic in a little more depth. Auckland is the place I grew up and experienced a majority of my life in. After spending two years in Sydney, I truly love it as a city. The weather, … Continue reading My Love Hate Relationship With Auckland

You Are Such A Beautiful Person

We see the world differently through our own eyes everyday. I feel like there is this part of myself, that wishes I could tell anyone who has ever felt alone, left out, worthless, ugly, hurt or question what their purpose in life is, I wish I could tell them how beautiful they are as a … Continue reading You Are Such A Beautiful Person

Traditional Love Vs Hookup Culture

Call me old fashion, but I truly believe that dating someone should be because you can see yourself marrying the person. If someone is going to play games with you, lead you the wrong direction, not see you in their future or leave you confused, then it's not really worth it. I've never really understood the … Continue reading Traditional Love Vs Hookup Culture

Five Acts Of Self Love For A Positive Day

This blog post is in collaboration with the lovely Elly-Grace from Dancing In Violent Fields. Check out her blog post 5 Random Acts of Kindness here! Self love is the ultimate way we are able to have a more peaceful world. One can only love others, when they love and embrace themselves. We've all felt the words that may pop … Continue reading Five Acts Of Self Love For A Positive Day

We Need Empathy And Sensitivity In The World

We care more about ourselves. I say this very lightly, because of course we care about those we love. We would never want to see them get hurt. Yet, in this world, it is easy to forget to be sensitive, kind and understanding. It's easy to forget to be empathetic, caring and loving. It's easier … Continue reading We Need Empathy And Sensitivity In The World

Daily Thoughts: How To Deal With Hurt

I wish I could write something that was filled with more sunshine, but somehow it's always better to be honest about how you're feeling. I haven't felt happy lately with the feeling of having a heavy heart. The feeling of being inside a cage, wondering when you can be set free. The feeling of waiting and feeling … Continue reading Daily Thoughts: How To Deal With Hurt

What Is Essential Is Invisible To The Eye

“People where you live," the little prince said, "grow five thousand roses in one garden... yet they don't find what they're looking for..." "They don't find it," I answered. "And yet what they're looking for could be found in a single rose, or a little water..." "Of course," I answered. And the little prince added, … Continue reading What Is Essential Is Invisible To The Eye

What Really Matters In The World

There's been a lot of news lately that makes me feel down about what is happening in the world. Then I remind myself that there are far more beautiful things that happen in the world, that we simply don't hear about or don't see. The world we live in often feeds off the bad news to … Continue reading What Really Matters In The World

Daily Thoughts: Remember To Take A Deep Breath

It may seem strange, but it's easy for me to forget to breathe. To really breathe. No matter how much I may remind myself that each breath is what keeps me going, there are often days where the anxiety flies in without any warning. My mind freezes and I can't think straight. My throat chokes … Continue reading Daily Thoughts: Remember To Take A Deep Breath

The Power Of True Kindness

There are 3 ways to ultimate success: The first way is to be kind. The second way is to be kind. The third way is to be kind." Fred Rogers.  Our society focuses more on the bad rather than the good. We hear bad news more so in the media. We hear gossip, deaths and crises around the … Continue reading The Power Of True Kindness