Changing From An INFJ To An ENFJ

I don't know what to say because I feel I am an introvert in many senses, but perhaps I'm a balance between an introvert and extrovert. Since 2013 I've take the personality test once a year, and each year it has always been INFJ even when I'd take it a second time just to double … Continue reading Changing From An INFJ To An ENFJ

10 Reasons Why It’s Cool To Spend Time Alone

It seems timely to write this during exam period where I feel like I seem to be spending a lot of time on my own studying. Spending time in your own company is the peace and quiet we all need. Everyone will feel comfortable with different lengths of time spent alone. I find that spending … Continue reading 10 Reasons Why It’s Cool To Spend Time Alone

The Unfolding Nature Of A Quiet Introvert

Many of us tend to show more of our personality the more we become comfortable with a person. I find that there are only a very few handful of people that have ever seen my whole personality, and understand the extent of how odd but loving I am. Truly, I think everyone is a little … Continue reading The Unfolding Nature Of A Quiet Introvert

Let’s Talk About The Resting Sad Face

I was sitting at a cafe this week, and as I stared off into space, my face tends to relax into a somewhat restful, deep-in-thought face. The waitress asked me several times "Are you okay?" and I smiled back with a "Yes". I don't know if it's because it's more common to see most people … Continue reading Let’s Talk About The Resting Sad Face

What It Means To Be Quietly Confident

There's a misconception that confidence means being an extrovert, being loud, openly expressive and outgoing. There is this image of someone who is likable, energetic and gets a long with everyone. However, confidence means having faith in yourself or someone else. It's the state of feeling certain about the truth of something. There is this idea … Continue reading What It Means To Be Quietly Confident

The Common Misconceptions Of Being Soft Spoken

When I think of soft spoken people, I think of Marzia, Audrey Hepburn, Katie Holmes, Snow White and Winona Ryder. The thing with the way we speak is that we don't really hear ourselves. It's similar in the sense that we don't hear our own accent. When I speak, I forget how soft and quieter … Continue reading The Common Misconceptions Of Being Soft Spoken

The Power Of Introverts In A World That Can’t Stop Talking

Quiet: The Power Of Introverts In A World That Can't Stop Talking was the first book I read in 2017. It was such a wonderful and incredibly relatable book that had me nodding throughout. After watching Susan Cain's Ted talk on the power of introverts, it gave me a sense of reassurance and a wider perspective … Continue reading The Power Of Introverts In A World That Can’t Stop Talking