Actions Speak Louder Than Words

2f17973fb61dafcb5cc6e15e78ea2548It’s important to look at what someone does, more than what they say. As you grow older, you realise the deeper meaning of the well known saying that actions speak louder than words. When I was younger, I was very trustworthy of what other people said, and I liked to think everyone was a good and honest person. It’s common for people to call it ignorance or innocence, but it was truly because I tried to see the good in others. As individuals, we may say things in certain ways that relate better to different people. We may like to say certain things because we know that’s what the other person wants to hear. We might say thoughts that are honest, only half said, a dream or a growing idea.

We can say kind words to others, talk about our ideas and the great changes we want to make in the world. However, if we don’t act upon it, then the words lose their meaning. The actions we take show our character. This is also connected to change. When we want to change something about ourselves, it’s easy to say I’ll change. However, in truly believing in them and acting upon them, is when we prove to ourselves that we are capable of change. Have you ever met someone who had a very serious demeanour about them, but did something so kind towards you that didn’t require any words? It’s those small gestures, that show the real character of someone’s heart.

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Words have power, and we can comfort, give advice, share ideas and be educated through words. I find that in seeing a person’s character, we should see what they do. There are many people who are smooth talkers and promise makers, but if it doesn’t translate into one’s actions, then we lose trust. Our body language also speaks for a lot of our communication, and sometimes we don’t need someone to speak to see how they might be feeling. This is why it is more exciting to keep a lot of our dreams to ourselves, as our actions will speak when it’s time. It’s easy to say something out loud, and people can always nod a long and appear to be agreeing.

You are what you do, not what you say you’ll do. We’ve all been there, where we’ve said we will accomplish this or that. I still remember a wise advice from my dear flute teacher, who told me to keep goals to oneself as a motivator. There are some goals that don’t need to be told to the world, because over time, they will show themselves. True care towards one another is through the things we would do for one another, not always through the things we say. We can tell someone we care for them, but when they are hurting and we’re not there for them, then the words lose their meaning. It’s the time we give, the actions we take and the way we treat those around us that show our true character.

“Life is too short to be around someone that says they love you but doesn’t show it.”
― Elizabeth Bourgeret

“I never listen to what a person says. I look at what a person does because what they do tells me who they really are.”
― Patty Houser

Artwork by Tag Traum

5 thoughts on “Actions Speak Louder Than Words

  1. So agree with you that what we do is much more meaningful than what we say, and what can be said can be said in passing. What I do find challenging sometimes is doing things at the right moment. Sometimes if a kind gestured is badly timed, it might be taken the wrong way. I do try to be there for others when they need it, but at the same time also need to make sure I don’t overwhelm myself.

  2. I completely agree. I have always thought that someone’s words hold the most weight, but in the last few years I’ve started to realise that when someone’s words don’t match up with their actions, this is when actions really do speak louder than words and in a way this shows you way more about the person than their words will ever mean x

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