Don’t Let Fear Stop You From Your Dreams

486f7e926b2270b84179c3bb3b1e9c24This is one of the most important reminders in life that we need. Last year I wrote a post called Getting Outside Of Your Comfort Zone because for a very long time I allowed my anxiety to take over my daily life. Most fear is built up in our imagination. Once we conquer our fear, it never is as scary as you thought it would be. Playing it safe can limit us. Sometimes taking risks, challenging ourselves and breaking our safety barrier can make us stronger and wiser. Fear of Failure stops us from taking the first step. When we fear failure, we have already set ourselves up for failure in our mind. It means that we don’t give ourselves the chance to try.

Many goals and successes that someone reaches, has conquered many failures. I remember watching the ballet, The Nutcracker. The ballerinas make every move look graceful and effortless, yet it took a lot of hard work, time, energy and passion. Through all of that, they have faced their own failures. It took moments where there may have been many bad practice days or rejections from auditions, but there they were on the stage now, because they had a dream and worked hard for it. Fear tells us to not try and it tells us we’re not worth it. It stops us from enjoying life and being happy in the moment.

In order to achieve our goals, we must start with the first step. Our mind is so powerful because every thought we feed it affects the actions we’ll take. If we tell ourselves we can, then we’ll make that action to do it, and that’s when we set the path in the direction we build for ourselves. Everyone is on a different journey, and we all want to achieve different things in our life. Life is unpredictable, but having dreams is what makes it worthwhile. I saw the quote the other day, that we aren’t here to pay the bills and die. It’s absolutely true!

Life has far more meaning, and dreams are within all of us. We often want to wait for the right moment when we feel ready, but often that moment won’t really come. Most things in life start when we take the first step, just the way we learn to take the first step as a baby. We might have fallen over, but we have to keep trying until we learn to walk, and now it’s something we don’t even think about, we just do. In that moment we might have been hesitant, but when you pass that feeling of your comfort zone, there is so much you realise you have the ability to achieve. It all starts with taking the first step.

Art by Naomi Wilkinson

4 thoughts on “Don’t Let Fear Stop You From Your Dreams

  1. (This is off topic SORRY)
    ^_^ I felt inclined to say that your blog is fantastic! Keep doing what your doing!!!
    I had been researching INFJ characteristics and found your input on being an INFJ, coincidentally on another website on INFJ. I am also a Christian and I’d like t say Bless you for your words of encouragement. When I had been feeling down previously a couple months back, I read some of what you had written abut you being disheartened and lost. I felt a kinship if you will.
    And I’d like to say wholeheartedly – thank you.
    From a 18yr old girl who doesn’t know what she’s doing at all with her life. I’m still searching and you have (and continue ) to be a torch in my temporary darkness. :)

  2. Thank you, thank you Rechida for this wonderful comment! I’m happy to hear you are a fellow Christian, that really warms my heart, and I’m glad you could relate to something I wrote as an INFJ. The best thing is that at no matter what age, there are many things we still don’t know how to go about, that’s the beauty of life – learning at every age! Sending you hugs and all the best with your journey xx

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