The Lost Art Of Staring Into Space

tumblr_nbydv01Db41re3kvuo1_500.jpgAs I walk into a space, there is often people with their heads down on their phone, laptop or mp3 player. It makes me think about how we don’t see daydreamers as often as we used to, and if you catch sight of one, perhaps you might make eye contact for a fleeting second. Our eyes show what we focus on or perhaps we might be gazing into the distance absorbing our surroundings. The lost art of staring into space, also suggests the quiet moments where we pause for a moment. The kind of pause that needs no interruption or interaction with our technological devices.

There’s time to take a deep breath, stare into nature and listen to the birds outside. We are all plugged online at some point of the day (hence I’m writing online this moment). However, these thoughts wonder into my mind about how this has become normalised. As I visit Taiwan each year, it’s normal for the whole row on a train to be on their mobile devices and in Sydney, it’s normal for someone to be walking and nearly walk into you while they text their friend and in New Zealand, it’s normal to see someone with their headphones talking to someone about business. But, somehow, it just doesn’t seem normal.

I say this mostly because I rarely use my phone when I’m out and about, or at least I try not to too much. The truth is we don’t need to use our phone 9/10 times, but it has become a habit or a ritual of some kind, that seems natural and we might not think twice about it. Space makes me think of back on the farm when I was younger, I could crouch down and stare at little ants walking past, watch my pigs eat or lie on the grass staring at the clouds moving across the blue sky and time seemed to pass by.  The art of staring into space is also the art of simply doing nothing.

We are a culture that praises busyness because it ties in with the idea of productivity which also suggests motivation. Busyness is always trending, as a memory seemed to pop in my head of how many times we may have said we’re doing nothing, but people seem to need to feel sympathetic when there’s no need. It’s nice to do nothing. Back in high school, when I was bored I would always daydream, but nowadays when someone is bored they may whip out their phone or listen to music on the streets. Comfort in being alone is important, as it means we are able to disconnect from the world.

I found when we were younger, there was a sense of creativity that we build in our moments of space. If we didn’t know what to do, we’d find something to do or imagine what, where and who we might be. The curiosity of noticing the things around us invites excitement and experiences into our lives. They make us more aware individuals and more engaged in the present. There is so much beauty in quiet moments, that we forget it if we surround ourselves with a noisy environment. Take those moments where you look around, people watch and feel the world around you.

Space gives us the ability to develop creativity, awaken curiosity and allow critical reflection and thoughts to wander. The lost art of staring into space reminds us to see the world offline, without our screens in front of us. It allows us to see the reality around us through the lens of our own eye. It reminds us that we don’t always need to be switched on and that we need time to be in a quiet and peaceful state of mind. A wonderful article here, talks about the ability to switch off and the true joy in leisure.

The last few paragraphs from the article: We’re either working, or preparing and commuting to work, or recharging our batteries for another round of work. Otherwise, we’re just flopping out in front of a screen. And many of the activities that we deem as leisure are in fact just another version of toil, argues Skidelsky. Jogging to lose weight, hosting parties in order to ‘network’, learning yoga to be an instructor, these activities are undertaken instrumentally with a specific goal in mind. Leisure, on the other hand, is done for no other sake than for the sheer joy of immersion. 

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5 thoughts on “The Lost Art Of Staring Into Space

  1. I totaly agree with this. I love looking at the stars! At our cabin you can see everything and last summer we woke up int he middle of the night to watch a meteor shower. It was the most magical thing. I feel sad that most people in cities can only see a few stars. It really ruins the connection we have to our spirit and creativity!

  2. Thank you for sharing that. Must have been such a beautiful sight! I agree – it reminds me of when I was living on the farm and we’d lie on the grass and stare at the stars. It was just incredible, the stars always felt so close and clear, and on a clear night you could see the milky way!

  3. I (like always) agree with the message of this post. This kind of awareness is increasingly more important as society becomes more absorbed/fascinated by what technology (among other things) can offer us, but which may not always serve us in the best way possible.

  4. Thanks so much for your comments Michelle – I always enjoy reading them. Exactly, I’ve had a lecture on Social Media this year and it really sunk in this message inside of me on how important it is to stay in touch with the world and seeing beyond screens in a technological world. Thanks for reading :)

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