I wonder in a life time, how often we may be rejected, told that we can’t, bullied and taken to the very bottom. But, then ask yourself how often we have lifted ourselves up back onto our feet, and told ourselves we have the capability of reaching success. Naturally, as humans we tell ourselves certain things, that we unconsciously don’t realise limits our abilities. An open mind is telling you, even though I may feel in a box and I feel unable to get out, I have every ability to go out and try, even if I fail. There will always be people who want you to fail and people who want you to succeed. What is most important is what you truly want. I strongly believe everyone is capable of success. It all comes down to the way we think. The way we think affects the actions we take, and the foot print we set on this Earth. However, if you have never been rejected, then you have never tried, and there fore you can be sure it will be harder to reach success.
If we always try out best, then I can guarantee we will never fail. Sure, a long the way we will, but doing your best can only bring you to the best result in the end. No matter how much the little voice in your head comes in now, and says “No way, I don’t believe you”. That’s when I want to tell people, you have every ability and strength to succeed. Our personal self doubt is one of our worse enemies. It tells us we can’t, when we can. It tells us to care about what others think, when so often we shouldn’t. It tells us we are a failure, when we’re not. My personal experience from rejection, is that I learned from these experiences, that I would of never got unless I got rejected. Just as the saying goes: When something bad happens you have three choices. You can let it define you, let it destroy you, or you can let it strengthen you. What I’m trying to say, is I let it push me to keep going, rather than to let me down and put me at a standstill. If we don’t move, we won’t ever reach our destination.
If you really want to do something in your life right now, the best advice I could give to you is, Go for it. You can only find out if you are really good or really bad at something, until you try it. Which goes the same for food. It’s easy for us to look at something and make a snap judgment, but if we try and step out of the side line and into the field, then our mind will make a quality decision. Many people look at success as a single line to the top, but it’s more in the shape of a rollercoaster, such is life. Sometimes we’re up and other times we’re down, but if you keep trying and keep improving, you’ll be sure to get to the top.